The party boys guide to dating a geek
The party boys guide to dating a geek - Irish adult chat rooms
Here’s the scenario: I’m attracted to the kind of guy who’s… The kind who’d prefer to stay home on Friday night than be out “living it up”.
The best way to a geek or nerd guy’s heart is to connect with them about something that most girls don’t have a clue about.
Don’t take that too harshly: we ALL have a disconnect between our private vision of ourselves and others’ perception of us. They can state all day long about how they’re looking for someone to watch Battlestar Galactica and play Xbox with them, but, like most guys, they’re powerless in the face of a Maxim model.
And, as I think this through, I would guess that this is going to be your biggest uphill climb.
Approach it with the same detachment as buying a lottery ticket, and you’ll have a lot more fun.
And whether you are coming across well in your photos, profile and emails, my guess is that, if you’re like most people, you can stand to use some improvement.
Read on to see what advice he followed, what advice he didn’t, and how it all ended up.
Finding someone to date shouldn’t be like trying to party up in an MMORPG: running around, repeatedly spamming chat channels for a group, and anxiously seeking a random encounter. This isn’t that kind of book.) No, seeking out Player Two is more like an old-school RPG: a gradual progression that, with the right walkthrough, becomes much, much easier.
The Convention Comic Con, video game expos, anime conventions… Maybe that good-looking cosplayer just wants to hang out with her friends and be left alone.
That lady rummaging like mad through the dollar comics?
But don’t try to fake it – Fake Geek has a stench you can smell a mile away.
, a new how-to book by Eric Smith, coming out on December 3 from Quirk Books.
Guys who’ve been around the block, like yours truly, eventually, HOPEFULLY, come to the conclusion that it’s not all about initial attraction.